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Robin Becker
Robin Becker
Robin Becker is the author of several collections of poetry, including Domain of Perfect Affection. She serves as the Poetry Editor for The Women's Review of Books and is a Professor of English and Women's Studies at Pennsylvania State University...
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FURTHER READING
Poems About Fathers
Blood
by Naomi Shihab Nye
Daddy
by Sylvia Plath
Deer Hit
by Jon Loomis
Descriptions of Heaven and Hell
by Mark Jarman
Do not go gentle into that good night
by Dylan Thomas
Father Outside
by Nick Flynn
Father's Song
by Gregory Orr
Grief Calls Us to the Things of This World
by Sherman Alexie
Inventing Father In Las Vegas
by Lynn Emanuel
my father moved through dooms of love
by E. E. Cummings
My Father on His Shield
by Walt McDonald
My Father's Hat
by Mark Irwin
My Papa's Waltz
by Theodore Roethke
Parents
by William Meredith
Poems about Fathers
The Idea of Ancestry
by Etheridge Knight
Those Winter Sundays
by Robert Hayden
Whose Mouth Do I Speak With
by Suzanne Rancourt
With Kit, Age 7, at the Beach
by William Stafford
Working Late
by Louis Simpson
Yesterday
by W. S. Merwin
Related Prose
The Bond of Living Things: Poems of Ancestry
by Toi Derricotte
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Man of the Year  
by Robin Becker

My father tells the story of his life

and he repeats The most important thing:
          to love your work.
I always loved my work. I was a lucky man.

This man who makes up half of who I am,
         this blusterer
who tricked the rich, outsmarting smarter men,

gave up his Army life insurance plan
          (not thinking of the future
wife and kids) and brokered deals with two-faced

rats who disappeared his cash but later overpaid
         for building sites.
In every tale my father plays outlaw, a Robin Hood

for whom I'm named, a type of yeoman
         refused admission
into certain clubs. For years he joined no guild—

no Drapers, Goldsmiths, Skinners, Merchant
         Tailors, Salters, Vintners—
but lived on prescience and cleverness.

He was the self-inventing Polish immigrant's
         Son, transformed
By American tools into Errol Flynn.

As he speaks, I remember the phone calls
         during meals—
an old woman dead in apartment two-twelve

or burst pipes and water flooding rooms.
         Hatless,
he left the house and my mother's face

assumed the permanent worry she wore,
         forced to watch him
gamble the future of the semi-detached house,

our college funds, and his weekly payroll.
         Manorial halls
of Philadelphia his Nottingham,

my father fashioned his fraternity
         without patronage
or royal charters but a mercantile

swagger, finding his Little John, Tinker,
         and Allen-a-Dale.
Wholesalers, retailers, in time they resembled

the men they set themselves against.
         Each year they roast and toast
one member, a remnant of the Grocer's Feast

held on St. Anthony's Day, when brothers
         communed and dined
on swan, capon, partridges, and wine.

They commission a coat of arms, a song,
         and honor my father—
exemplary, self-made, without debt—

as Man of the Year, a title he reveres
          for the distinguished
peerage he joins, the lineage of merry men.



From Domain of Perfect Affection © 2006. All rights are controlled by the University of Pittsburgh Press, Pittsburgh, PA 15260. Used by permission of the University of Pittsburgh Press.
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